About PEJ MON

Our talented Relationship & Life Coach, Pej Mon, works extensively with difficult relationship dynamics, challenging communication patterns, ongoing arguments & conflicts, regulating emotions, repairing intimacy & trust, and other issues.

Although he is not a clinical licensed therapist, Pej is a Certified Life Coach through the Coach Training Institute and has extensive training in highly effective counseling and coaching modalities such as NVC (Non-Violent Communication) & Gottman Method of Couples Counseling. Pej has worked with couples and individuals for over a decade and is known for achieving powerful and fast results.

Pej is passionate about supporting couples to utilize their most engrained conflicts in the most positive and powerful way to enhance each other’s personal growth and transform the angry and combative feelings into passionate feelings of relationship vitality.

HIs work helps couples with:

• Deepening  empathy

• Navigating trigger moments

• Using conflict to empower each partner's self growth

• Crisis intervention

• Communication mastery / Conflict mastery

• Increasing Passion & Intimacy

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PEJ WORKS WITH COUPLES AS WELL AS INDIVIDUALS AND HAS OFFICES IN OAKLAND, BERKELEY, AND ONLINE.

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Relationship Transformation for Couples 

When couples show up to sessions they need help transforming their conflicts. Learn how to navigate any conflict or trigger with such ease and power you may actually end up looking for your next trigger moment.  When approached in the correct manner, using a relationship for what it is meant for, every situation can be utilized to create the most positive. In actuality, the most intense conflicts you face, are also the situations that are going to help you evolve the most, and be the source of your greatest happiness IF you are ready to show up powerfully and integrate. That's what I'm here to help couples with. If you live in the bay area, we can meet in person.

SAN FRANCISCO's Leading Couples Counseling, LIFE & RELATIONSHIP COACHING

IF THERE IS ONE THING I’M PASSIONATE ABOUT IT’S PASSION!

But that's not where this story begins. At birth the societal and familial programming began, as the expectations and beliefs of my parents and culture unknowingly became my own. Ideas of duty, being realistic, and what a "successful" and "good" person should do settled in and the glowing aliveness of my child self dimmed. The decades long inner struggle manifested. Through repression and questioning of my passion and the resulting depression, confusion, self-sabotage, inner conflict and incongruence I was finally through sheer relentless questioning and searching for truth led to the skills and tools of self transformation.

I now believe the tools that are the most powerful are the ones that allow you to truly KNOW and BE Thyself. I’ve been so tirelessly committed to learning these tools that one could say I’m like the Sherlock Holmes of limiting beliefs / false thinking / non-aligned action. I’ve studied and been certified in many modalities (CTI Coaching, Kingian Conflict Resolution, Gandhi-an Nonviolence, Recode Transformation, AstroPsychology, amongst others) and they have unlocked my intuitive sensing that I bring to each session.

When you choose to transform with me, you will have someone by your side ready to reflect anything out of alignment with a magnifying, undeterred lens. You can then tune your consciousness to your higher self and be the living embodiment of who you really are. It doesn’t have to be painful. It can be not just easy, but incredibly exhilarating.

Ironically, the more we individuate and dance to the beat of our own drum, the more we fit with and inspire others. When enough of us make this choice, we can truly harmonize on a large scale, and the symphonic resonance of a world in bliss can finally be heard.

So, are you ready to be your true self?

-Pej

San Francisco Bay Area TRANSFORMATIONAL COACHING & Couples Counseling